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How to motivate yourself when you are just tired.

maybe you already know the answer to this.  sleep as much as you can. charge yourself. is all what it is. lately I have been preparing for the best sewing, and blogging studio in my room, and just watching netflix as well(this is the worst part…) but I just get tired, and didnt come up with any project, I have a few ideas but even that I dont want to put them into action…and I started wondering why.( and thats going on for about 3 years…)

I’m tired because

  1. I dont have enough time and extra money to make this all happen at once.
  2. I want to post the blog at least once a week, but this schedule is just too tight when you work full time, and raising a kid…
  3. I gained weight… so I might look dumb in the picture….
  4. I just dont have physical strength…if I did, I think I can do more….
  5. It’s not about you anymore, focus on your kid…

yea so I have been making an excuse with these thoughts, and preventing me from doing what I am supposed to love…which is to create my own clothes and stuff and show off at this blog. so I can identify myself, besides kid, besides my daily job.( hopefully I can make this as my life-work.)

well, after you sleep, you will have your energy back, and its a holiday morning, kid is still snoring. so you got some time for yourself. think about the solution for these 5 factors to make it into positive work.

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①I dont have enough money and time to make this all happen at once.

yea, but just change your strategy, little by little and take it slow when you dont have time.  just dont lose your goal, you actually will get there.

②I want to post the blog at least once a week, but this schedule is just too tight when you work full time, and raising a kid…

again, change your strategy.  It is impossible. so dont make a tight plan, start from what you can do.(nobody really is checking your blog anyway…lol) but that doesnt mean you can quit, this is what you want to do, stick with it. you will get there.

③I gained weight… so I might look dumb in the picture….

uhmm…world is appreciating the glamour curvy body right now, just appreciate what you have man, you are still healthy enough to have normal life for christ sake!

④I just dont have physical strength…if I did, I think I can do more….

yea? so what are you going to do about it? walk and stretch, walk and stretch, walk and stretch!

⑤It’s not about you anymore, focus on your kid…

right, but still this is what you want to do, you got to keep on making and blogging. Kid will see what you do, and take in, to know that you are happy, he will learn. Think of it this way, doing what you want to do and showing it to him will teach him how to achieve your goals and being happy.

what a constructive morning I had!!

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